This reading is for those who are wondering about a person they don't have contact with currently. This is a timeless reading, so if you come across this at any point in the future, that is when it was meant to find you.
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âClose your eyes and take a few deep breaths.
âWhen you are ready and relaxed, pick the group of cards that calls to you.
âKeep in mind that this is a general reading and to take the messages that resonate with you and leave the rest. ( you may book a personal reading for more clarity)
âIf the group doesn't resonate with you at all, you A) Need to chose a different group. B) Were not meant to hear a message at this time.
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Pick Your Group
When you are ready, Scroll to your group below.
Group One
For group ones person, I was getting that this is someone who hasn't learned much from the separation. They are still in a very naĂŻve and immature thought process about the whole thing. While this may be the case, I am seeing that this was supposed to happen. A destiny most likely for your own benefit. I see that it weighs heavy on you often and is especially hard mentally. You have to remember that you have no obligation to correct the behaviors or actions of this person and you can't spend your life wondering "what if".
I'm also seeing that this is someone from your childhood or that you have a long history with. There are feelings of nostalgia or longing with this person that makes it harder to see the bigger picture clearly. A very odd thing I found when drawing the Ace of Swords was that it wanted to be sideways which tells me that there's a lot of confusion in you about what to do about this person. It feels like you could have contact with this person if you wanted to, but you aren't sure where you stand. Your energies are presenting as a lot of bitterness in the situation but that makes sense because the clarifying card of the Four of Swords is telling me that they were the ones who put you in those energies. They are the ones who are playing victim and not seeing how they are hurting you or others.
In my opinion, this is a person who you cannot help and shouldn't take responsibility for. It is not your job to fix others especially when they cannot fix themselves. They are a very undeveloped energy which needs more time and work on themselves. While I know that this may hurt to hear, I think it's better if communication continues to be minimal or none. I hope this resonated with you. Love and light. â¤
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Group Two
In this reading I was picking up that you feel like this situation was a bit of bad luck for you. It does feel like a romantic relationship, but for a few I could see this being a family member or a friend. I see that you are hopelessly holding onto this person coming back into your life, even though they made it very clear that they no longer wanted contact or a relationship.
I feel you still hurting over this connection trying to gather the pieces you have left of this person, even though they are constantly hurting you when you do. I am seeing that you will eventually accept the change and that this happened so that something better can come into your life. Even though this may take a while, you need to keep moving forward with trying to heal yourself.
When I asked for clarification about the situation, spirit told me that this was a cycle completed. A lesson for your soul to learn and grow. Unfortunately as we go through life we are faced with challenges that can be overwhelming but necessary. Look at this as growth and learning that you can be strong even when it feels like the world is falling apart. To let go of weakness and self doubt. To learn that it's ok to be alone for a little while and put yourself first. Let this relationship go with confidence knowing that it is for the best for both of you.
I hope this resonated with you, Love and Light.
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Group 3
The energies with this reading were different than that of the first two groups. I felt that this person is working hard to try to make their way back to you, or vice versa. They are working on their stability and trying to get all of their loose ends in order to protect themselves or you. They want to be seen as someone who is put together and not let on that they may be less than perfect right now. I'm feeling that you two are spiritually connected, with either a soul bond or an intuition about one another. For some of you, this is a very good friend of yours. For others, it is a romantic connection. I am not seeing that this may be for a family member, but it's not entirely impossible either.
This person has a lot of love for you as I feel you do for them. Unfortunately circumstances have led to a separation and no contact. They had to walk away from this union because they needed time to evaluate their feelings and for a select few, this person just isn't good with facing things head on so it was a form of escapism in the moment. They are currently working on their stability as I said with the Four of Coins. The Emperors energy is giving me vibes of working on their mental health and learning to be brave.
They put themselves in this situation but I am feeling a lot of regret over it. A lot of "what if's" and sadness. Yet, they needed to free themselves so that they could heal the pieces of them that needed to be healed. They needed to take a stand for what they felt was right. This could have been a "situationship" for some of you. They are focused on their balance and harmony. So, it's not to say that this person won't ever come back, but I feel like it might be awhile before they do. They are determined to be a better person and this is the most important thing for them right now. So give them space and let them decide when they are ready.
I hope this resonated with you Love and Light.
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Group 4
This disconnect feels like it happened after a situation that demanded justice. To bring things back to balance and maintain the honor of both parties. For some of you, I feel like this connection was one that was not stable and resulted in a lot of toxic behavior. This person feels like someone you have known for a long time that you were very close with. You have spent a lot of time with this person and established a comfortable and familiar way of life with them at one point even if that way of life was not healthy. Even if it was a healthy relationship, there was a decision to separate or sever contact because the benefits from doing so outweighed the result of staying in touch.
It feels like this was a difficult decision to make. I see that there was either a marriage, a partnership, someone who has been in your life for a long time or maybe even a living situation. Your person was feeling like things were on repeat and that they weren't going anywhere. Not because they didn't love you, but because they had other opportunities to pursue. I see that this caused a lot of bitterness and resentment in them for being held down, and in you when they decided to separate or cut contact.
They are still in conflict with themselves about their decision because they were committed to the relationship and enjoyed the familiarity. However it wasn't serving them and their highest purpose. They have begun their healing process and enjoying the sense of freedom that they have gotten since then. A sense of relief and joy is the ending energy here. I don't think that you two had any strong negative feelings for each other, however I do feel that you two were absolutely not meant to be together and the relationship reflected that. Whether it was romantic, friendly, or other. I think it was too hard for the other person to hide what they really wanted and needed while in communication with you. So in conclusion. This was absolutely the right decision for no contact. At least until there has been enough time in between for healing for both of you. I don't see this ever being a strong connection again, but I do see that there is chance for a casual connection somewhere down the line.
I hope this resonated with you .Love and Light.
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